Posts Tagged ‘alcoholism’

Luis Villalobos receiving the Hans Severiens Award

Luis Villalobos was a great mentor to me, the 12 Angels and lots of other people! He was a pioneer in angel investing, an advocate for entrepreneurs and an architect of organizations. Here is my story about Luis Villalobos…

In 2004, I was in a long term drug and alcohol treatment program. At 42 it was difficult to imagine starting my professional career over. The last 3 years of drug abuse had destroyed my professional reputation. My financial life was chaotic. My personal life was a mess. I had a young 2 and a half year old daughter and a wife who was a well respected professional in the drug and alcohol treatment industry.

For the last 20 years, I was in technology. I was an entrepreneur having founded 3 tech companies. At 42, I was wondering while laying in my twin bed at the drug treatment center, what do can I do? Am I too old or too poor to start another company? Should I get a job in technology? Should I get a get well job at Starbucks and focus on meetings and my recovery?

Career decisions are daunting while living in converted retirement home with 150 other unemployed addicts. Being around so many unemployed people robs one of hope. What can I put on my resume, I have been serving meals to 150 addicts at lunch time for the last 6 months?  I guess they would call that job a resume killer!

Somewhere along my path in treatment, I took the Myers Briggs personality assessment which helps identify temperament and aids in career decisions. My results, ENTP, the classic personality type of the entrepreneur. I was fascinated by the Myers Briggs and its accurate appraisal of my temperament.

In early recovery from drug addiction a person is on an emotional roller coaster of fear, hope, despair and purpose. I was searching for my calling, what can I do? Who am I, I am a recovering heroin addict and an entrepreneur. Those two activities have dominated my life. Where can I find meaning in my career, do I want to go back into technology?

It hit me one day, maybe entrepreneurship can help people with addictions. Maybe I can take my passion for entrepreneurship and apply it to helping people with addictive disorders. I was aware of social entrepreneurs who apply their entrepreneurial talents to social problems. I thought I am going to do that!

The next question is how? I started to brainstorm:

1. Creating businesses in treatment centers. Is anyone doing that? What are the benefits of having a business inside a treatment center?

a. You can generate money to help the treatment center pay for the services they provide.

b. You can provide job experience and funds to the residents in the treatment center.

c. You can make the transition out of the treatment easier and reduce the chances of relapse.

2. Successful entrepreneurs Create jobs and opportunities.

a. Entrepreneurs in recovery are more likely to provide opportunities to other addicts, because they understand what it is like to be an addict in early recovery.

b. Entrepreneurs can create personal income when traditional employment may be unavailable.

I can go on and on with all the benefits entrepreneurship can have to the recovery process but I need to get back to my personal tribute to Luis Villalobos…

So after my little entrepreneurial brainstorm I thought of the 12 Angels, an angel investment group that would stimulate entrepreneurship in the recovery community. I then went on line and found the Angel Capital Association and signed up as one of their groups. They had a program where new angel groups were assigned a mentor, enter Luis Villalobos.

I had a meeting with Luis Villalobos a graduate of MIT and Harvard Business School. He was the founder of the Tech Coast Angels, the largest angel group in the nation. I couldn’t believe it! Here I was a guy living in drug rehab, who thought of a crazy idea to start an investment group that provided funds to recovering drug addicts. Now I was going to meet one of the most influential angel investors in the country, I couldn’t believe it!

My meeting with Luis Villalobos was more than I could have ever dreamed. Luis immediately saw the value in the 12 Angels, the powerful opportunity to use angel investing to help one of the largest economic issues facing our country; addiction costs the US over $340 Billion dollars per year!

Within one meeting, Luis architected the 12 Angels organization. He gave me a blueprint from which I have been trying to follow for the last 5 years. And he gave me more. He attended our organizations first presentation and mentored me to create the legal structure for the group. He helped me understand how to be an investor and a group organizer.

How do we put the 12 Angels into practice? We needed to find an investment. Luis and I discussed starting a high end drug and alcohol treatment center and over the next year Wonderland Treatment Center was born. Luis suggested I utilize the local business schools for support. I then pitched UCLA’s Anderson School of Management for assistance and we created a business plan for career mentorship using Facebook technology. Luis was a guide, an advisor, a cheerleader and a visionary.

I cannot imagine where my life would be had Luis told me the 12 Angels was a horrible idea that would never work. I cannot imagine what my relationship with my wife, daughter, friends and family would be had Luis not given me his time and his experience. Luis encouraged me to follow my dreams. Luis believed in angel investing and entrepreneurship. Luis was a mentor to me and many other people and organizations. I am very sad Luis is gone. The world has lost a very important individual. I know Luis’ made over 60 angel investments in businesses but he made his greatest investment in me. Thank you Luis Villalobos, I will never forget you!

Authentic!  This documentary is an accurate and moving portrayal of alcoholism.  In November 2005, A&E Television Network premiered Random 1 a documentary-style reality television series capturing the efforts of John Chester and Andre Miller to help random individuals make significant improvements in their lives.  The series explored how a simple act of kindness can truly change lives.

Recently two of the episodes were made into a feature length documentary called “Lost in Woonsocket”.  The movie has been accepted into a number of film festivals.  The story is about two alcoholics, Mark and Normand, who are homeless in Woonsocket, Rhode island.  John Chester and Andre Miller and their team embark on helping Mark and Normand find their sobriety.

The documentary provides short glimpses into the lives of Mark and Normand where we see the damage alcoholism does to Mark and Normand, their families and their communities.  The film is full of hope and tragedy and it does an excellent job of showing how hard it is for an alcoholic to find and keep their sobriety.

The team of John Chester, Andre Miller, Brian Altounian, Pat Finn, Charles J. Weber, David Riordan, Thea Maichle are social entrepreneurs using the media to make a difference.   If you go to their website they make the following statement “We believe that as Americans, we have a rich tradition of helping individuals who are less fortunate than ourselves. Lost and Found in America (LAFIA) strives to inspire in each of us, the power to save the world, one life at a time.

If you would like more information on the film please check out the website at:

http://www.lafia.org/featuredproject.fsp.

Lost & Found in America (LAFIA) is a non-profit organization formed to utilize media to highlight the efforts of individuals and organizations that are committed to helping those in need in their communities.  The inspiration for the creation of LAFIA started with festival screenings of the documentary film “Lost in Woonsocket”.

Boyhood Shadows - World Premiere - Sept. 22nd

As the focal point of our community, a goal of the 12 Angels is to support creative projects that raise awareness of the issues we face and encounter. A major project screening later this month in Monterey is the documentary, BOYHOOD SHADOWS. Focusing on male sexual abuse, this powerful film stars one of our own board members Glenn K. Sexual abuse often leads directly to problems with addiction as a way to escape the harshness of memory and reality.  Since “One in six boys is sexually molested before the age of 18”, the problem needs to be addressed. Support of this film by our community is an important first step. Personally, I experienced sexual abuse as a kid, and I know how it fueled my use of drugs and alcohol. During the making of the film, I had the opportunity to meet with the inspiring filmmakers, and it is an honor to support their work. The media is a powerful tool of social entrepreneurship.  We encourage our community to let us know of other media projects targeting addiction.  Below is the official press release of the film….

“The silence is broken.
On September 22, the groundbreaking documentary, BOYHOOD SHADOWS, “I Swore I’d Never Tell” holds its world premiere at the Steinbeck Forum in Monterey. This unprecedented film explores the emotional carnage of childhood sexual abuse - yet also shines light on the strength of the human spirit. It is a stunning, worthwhile expose of this monstrous secret.  It is true. Childhood sexual abuse happens. We as a society don’t want to talk about it. Yet, it is on the front page of our newspapers…. the accusation of David Stamm… the conviction of Charles Lamb. These are Monterey county cases. But it is a national story, a national epidemic. One in six boys is sexually molested by the age of 16. The Monterey County Rape Crisis Center presents a fundraiser premiere of BOYHOOD SHADOWS, a film by award-winning filmmakers, Terri DeBono and Steve Rosen of Mac and Ava Motion Pictures (Beyond Barbed Wire). Past and present elements are woven into the plot of this gripping documentary revealing Glenn’s story that began as a young boy under the power of a sexual predator.

Filmed in California, New York and New Jersey, the narrative chronicles Glenn’s struggle as he tries to make sense of his life, telling no one. Numbing his pain as a teen with alcohol and drugs, he held the secret and the shame. His brothers and sister, his mother and father – who recognized something was wrong with this once-golden-boy were at a loss to understand the cause of his devastation.  After suffering for decades addicted to alcohol and drugs, Glenn finally found the help he needed at a special Men’s Group led by therapist, Stephen Braveman, at Monterey County Rape Crisis Center.  In the film he describes his past…funny, poignant and sad. Glenn’s story is interspersed with other boys-turned-men.”

Along with nationally known experts in the field, several Monterey County and central California men are featured in the film, as well as Monterey therapist Stephen Braveman, Fred Jealous, Clare Mounteer, Executive Director for MCRCC and Ann Hill, Deputy District Attorney.  Laura Dare, Monterey composer and singer, will perform scores from the film at the premiere.

The film’s genesis began at the Monterey County Rape Crisis Center’s Men’s Group which created a 30 second PSA. Stephen Braveman, LMFT, facilitates this group. It is one of only an estimated 40 groups in the country. The premiere begins at 7:00 p.m. in the Steinbeck Forum and is followed by a dessert reception with the filmmakers and cast. The proceeds will benefit the Monterey County Rape Crisis Center’s Child Abuse Prevention Education Program which reaches over 5,000 public school children each year. Tickets are $20 in advance and $25 at the door. Call the Rape Crisis Center at 373-3955. Reserve your seats now.

*View the film’s trailer or get more information: http://www.boyhoodshadows.org/

WHERE: Steinbeck Forum in the Monterey Conference Center
WHEN: Monday, September 22
TIME: 7:00 – 9:00 pm
DESSERT RECEPTION: follows with filmmakers and cast
TICKETS: Call 831-373-395

$20 in advance, $25 at the door
Proceeds benefit MCRCC’s Child Abuse Prevention Program